When you are going through infertility, pregnancy loss, pregnancy, and/or postpartum changes, people often tell you how strong you are. “You’re so strong.” “I don’t know how you do it.” “You’ve got this.” Usually, these words are meant with love. But sometimes being called “strong” starts to feel less like encouragement and more like an expectation. Sometimes this leads us to isolate from others just to avoid the “toxic positivity.” If you are a millennial or Gen Z female, yo